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Showing posts with label childhood emotional neglect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label childhood emotional neglect. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 14, 2025

What's the Difference Between Emotional Co-regulation and Emotional Self Regulation?

People sometimes confuse the terms "emotional self regulation" and "emotional co-regulation" so I'm addressing the differences in this article.

Co-regulation vs Self Regulation

What's the Difference Between Co-regulation and Self Regulation?
When caregivers provide external support to their children, this is an example of emotional co-regulation, which is a foundational step for developing emotional self regulation.

Whereas co-regulation is the process in which one person helps another person to regulate their emotions, self regulation is the ability to manage your own thoughts, emotions and behaviors.

Both skills, co-regulation and self regulation, work together throughout life.

Let's break it down further:

Self Regulation
  • Definition: The internal ability to control your own thoughts, emotions and behaviors without relying on others.
  • Examples of Self Regulation:
    • Doing breathing exercises on your own to calm down
    • Managing frustration during an argument by going for a walk to calm down
Co-regulation
  • Definition: The process of two or more people working together to manage emotions and behaviors. This involves providing support, structure and warmth to help someone to calm down and learn coping skills.
  • Examples
    • A parent helping a child to calm down by speaking in a gentle tone and providing comforting hugs
    • One romantic partner helping another to calm down by listening in an attuned way, holding their hand and gently helping them to take relaxing breaths
  • Goal: To help someone to feel safe and understood which, in turn, builds their capacity for self regulation
  • Relationship Between Self Regulation and Co-regulation: Co-regulation is an essential step in helping someone to self regulate. A caregiver or partner's ability to self regulate is necessary in order for them to help co-regulate others. 
Clinical Vignette
The following clinical vignette illustrates the relationship between self regulation and co-regulation and how psychotherapy can help. As always, this vignette is a composite of many different cases to protect confidentiality:

Paul:
Paul was a latchkey kid. Both of his parents worked two jobs each so they weren't around when he came home from elementary school. 

There were times when he was at home alone that he thought he heard noises in the house and he was so scared he hid under his blanket until his parents came home. 

He knew his next door neighbors were at home, but his parents told him to never let them know he was home alone because they might call the child welfare bureau and then he would  be taken him away from his parents due to childhood neglect.

His parents explained to him they didn't want to leave him alone in the house, but they both needed to work and there were no other relatives to take care of him. They also couldn't afford childcare, so he would hide in fear until his parents came home.

Since Paul grew up being alone much of the time, he was often without his parents' emotional support, so he didn't learn how to manage his emotions.

His teacher told his parents that Paul had a difficult time calming himself down in school when he was upet. She suspected his parents weren't helping Paul to manage his emotions so she encouraged them to help him--although she didn't know they were often away from home.

By the time he went away to college, he was so anxious he was having panic attacks.  A college counselor referred him to a psychotherapist for help. 

His therapist used her co-regulate skills to help Paul. She also taught him self regulation skills by teaching him breathing exercises and other coping strategies. 

Eventually, he learned to regulate his emotions on his own.

After he graduated college, the skills he learned in therapy helped Paul to self regulate and co-regulate emotions with his new girlfriend, Sara.

Conclusion
Young children usually learn to co-regulate with their parents so they can develop self regulation skills as they get older.  However, there are times when children don't learn these skills because their parents are not around or the parents never learned to regulate their own emotions when they were growing. up so they can't help their children to develop skills they don't have.

Fortunately, people who didn't learn to regulate their emotions have an opportunity to learn as adults in psychotherapy.

About Me
I am a licensed New York psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT (for couples), Parts Work (IFS and Ego States Therapy), Somatic Experiencing and a Certified Sex Therapist.

I work with individual adults and couples.

As a Trauma Therapist, I have helped many clients to overcome trauma and manage their emotions so they can lead a more fulfilling life.

To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.

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Wednesday, July 2, 2025

Overcoming Fear of Abandonment in Trauma Therapy

Fear of abandonment is an issue that is more common than most people realize.  

Fear of Abandonment

Prior Articles
In the past, I have written about abandonment issues in prior articles including:



The Current Article
The current article will focus on:
  • What is Fear of Abandonment?
  • What Causes Fear of Abandonment?
  • What Are Signs and Symptoms of Fear of Abandonment?
What is Fear of Abandonment?
Some of the signs and symptoms of fear of abandonment might include some or all of the following:
  • Fear of Rejection: People who have abandonment issues often have a fear of being rejected--even when there is no objective reason to have this fear.
  • Difficulty Trusting Others: A fear of trusting others often involves a fear that someone will hurt or leave them.
Fear of Abandonment
  • Dependency: A fear of abandonment can lead to someone becoming overly dependent on others to give them reassurance and validation.
  • Low Self Esteem: Low self esteem can create difficulties in all areas of life including developing connections with others (see my article: Overcoming Low Self Esteem).
What Causes Fear of Abandonment?
Fear of abandonment can develop in many different ways.

The most common reason for abandonment issues is childhood trauma including:
Other possible causes:
  • Relationship Instability: Unstable relationships can create a sense of insecurity.
What Are the Signs and Symptoms of Fear of Abandonment?
Common signs include:
  • Jealousy including:
    • Jealousy of other friendships or family relationships
Jealousy and Fear of Abandonment
    • Problems trusting a significant other's intentions--even when there is no objective reason not to trust
  • Needing to feel controlled by a partner
  • Needing to control a partner
  • Getting involved in a relationship too quickly before getting to know the other person
  • Settling for an unhealthy relationship to avoid being alone
How Can Trauma Therapy Help With Fear of Abandonment?
Trauma therapy is a general term for different types of therapy developed specifically to help clients overcome trauma (see my article: How Does Trauma Therapy Work?)

Trauma therapy includes:
  • AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Therapy)
Clinical Vignette
The following clinical vignette, which is a composite of many different cases, illustrates how trauma therapy can help to overcome abandonment issues.

Alice
When Alice was five years old, her father left the family suddenly and they never heard from him again.

After her father left, Alice had nightmares almost every night where she saw her father and she would ask him why he left, but the dream always ended before he responded.  When she woke up in the morning, her dream seemed so real that she felt like she had actually seen her father--until she became fully awake and she realized it was a dream.

After her father abandoned the family, Alice's mother had to work three jobs to support the family, As a result, Alice spent most of the time with her elderly maternal grandparents, who criticized Alice's father to her. In response, Alice wanted to tell her grandparents that she loved and missed her father, but she was too afraid to sound like she was contradicting them, so she kept her sadness to herself.

After her father deserted the family, Alice had a hard time making friends. She lacked confidence in herself and she believed the other children didn't like her.  She was also afraid that if she tried to make friends with anyone, she would be rejected.  So, Alice spent a lot time alone in her room.

When she got to high school, she was aware that many people in her school were dating, but her self esteem was so low that she didn't believe anyone would like her.

When she got to college, she met a friendly young woman, Tina, who took Alice under her wing and introduced her to some of the other young women at the college. Tina was so outgoing and friendly that Alice met a lot of people on campus through her, but she still didn't feel confident.

After she graduated from college, Alice moved into an apartment in New York City with Tina. She found a job as a software engineer and she mostly worked on her own. Other than the friends that Tina introduced her to, Alice had no other friends of her own.

She was aware her low self esteem was holding her back personally and professionally, so she sought help in therapy to try to understand why she was having these problems.  She wanted to go out on dates, but she was afraid that if she liked someone, he might reject her.

Fear of Abandonment and Trauma Therapy

Her therapist was a trauma therapist who had advanced skills in trauma therapy.  After her therapist did a thorough family history, she traced Alice's fear of abandonment to her father's disappearance (see my article: Why is Family History Important in Therapy?).

Her therapist used a combination of EMDR Therapy and Parts Work Therapy to help Alice to heal from her trauma.

As Alice began to develop a little more self confidence, she began dating a man she met at a discussion group. Tom was kind, intelligent and patient with Alice but, even though she knew she had no objective reason for not trusting him, she had a hard time letting her guard down when she was with him (see my article: What Does Fear of Abandonment and Fear of Engulfment Look Like in a Relationship?).

Healing from her childhood trauma was neither quick nor easy. But, over time, with the help of her therapist, Alice was able to separate her childhood trauma of being abandoned by her father from her experiences with Tom (see my article: Overcoming Trauma: Learning to Separate "Then" From "Now").

Fear of Abandonment and Trauma Therapy

As she opened up more, her relationship with Tom improved and she was able to make new friends more easily.

Although she felt more emotionally secure with herself, there were still times when she had setbacks but, overall, she felt her life was opening up to new and rewarding experiences.

Conclusion
Abandonment issues usually stem from childhood issues, but they can also develop or become exacerbated by an unhealthy adult relationships or experiences.

Fear of being abandoned rarely, if ever, gets resolved on its own.

Trauma therapy is specifically designed to help clients to overcome trauma.

Getting Help in Trauma Therapy
A skilled trauma therapist can help you to overcome traumatic experiences like fear of abandonment or other unresolved trauma.

Getting Help in Trauma Therapy

Rather than struggling on your own, seek help from a licensed mental health professional who has advanced training and skills in trauma therapy.

Overcoming trauma can help you to lead a more fulfilling life.

About Me
I am a licensed New York psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT (for couples), Somatic Experiencing and Sex Therapist.

I have over 20 years of experience helping individual adults and couples to overcome trauma (see my article: What is a Trauma Therapist?)

To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.















































      Tuesday, July 1, 2025

      Healing Psychological Trauma By Integrating Split Off Parts of Yourself in Trauma Therapy

      In my prior article, What is Hypervigilance and How Is It Related to Unresolved Trauma?, I focused on the unconscious trauma-related defense mechanism of hypervigilance.


      Healing Trauma

      In the current article I'm focusing on how trauma therapy can help you to integrate the various split off parts of yourself.

      What Are Split Off Parts of Yourself?
      When you're trying to cope as best you can with traumatic situations, a common unconscious temporary coping strategy is to "zone out" or dissociate from your thoughts, feelings or circumstances (see my article: Discovering Disowned Parts of Yourself).

      Healing Trauma

      This coping strategy is relevant at all ages, but it's especially relevant if you're a young child because young children haven't developed the necessary skills and strategies to deal with dysfunction happening around them--whether the dysfunction is a chaotic family, unpredictable parents, abusive or neglectful parents, substance abusing parents or other similar traumatic situations.

      As a child, when you're not emotionally or psychologically equipped to deal with trauma, being able to dissociate (or "zone out") is an adaptive survival strategy when what is happening around you is overwhelming and traumatic. 

      Dissociation is a way your mind protects you by compartmentalizing events or circumstances that would otherwise cause you overwhelming stress. The overwhelming stress of childhood trauma is especially difficult if there is no one to help you to manage it.

      Dissociation creates a sense of detachment from overwhelming stress and it can allow you to function reasonably well in other areas of your life. 

      For example, even though there might be highly traumatic dynamics in your home, if you compartmentalize these dynamics, you can excel academically or in sports and anyone who doesn't know your family dynamics might not be aware that you're being traumatized at home because you appear to be a "normal" child in every other way.

      Why is Integrating Split Off Parts of Yourself Essential For Healing from Trauma?
      Everything I have mentioned so far about dissociation sounds adaptive, so why is there a need to integrate the parts of yourself that have been dissociated?

      As I mentioned previously, dissociation is a temporary unconscious solution during traumatic circumstances but, as an adult, you pay a price for the parts of yourself you have dissociated.

      Healing Trauma

      First, it's important to understand that, unlike dissociation, psychological integration is a strong indicator of positive mental health because it involves bringing together various parts of your personality, thoughts, feelings and behavior into a cohesive whole. 

      Second, psychological integration leads to increased self awareness, self reflective capacityemotional regulation and resilience.

      However, when you have dissociated parts of yourself, you can experience a lack of self awareness and emotional dysregulation and a lack of psychological integration.

      Dissociated parts can also create problems in your adult relationships because you might externalize your problems by blaming others and projecting dissociated negative feelings about yourself on your partner, which can be an obstacle to healthy relationships.

      How Does Trauma Therapy Help to Integrate Split Off Parts of Yourself
      Trauma therapy is an umbrella term for many different types of therapy including:
      • EMDR Therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
      • AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy)
      • Parts Work Therapy (including Internal Family Systems, also known as IFS, and Ego States Therapy)
      Clinical Vignette
      As mentioned above, there are different types of trauma therapy. 

      The following clinical vignette, which is a composite of many cases, illustrates how Parts Work Therapy can help with integrating dissociated parts:

      Bob
      When he was a child, Bob grew up in a family where his father was a severe alcoholic and his mother had an eating disorder. 

      Whenever Bob's father, Jim, drank at night, he would become enraged, scream at Bob's mother, Bob and his two older brothers. Sometimes Jim would get so angry that he would go on a drunken rampage throughout the house where he would break furniture.

      Bob's mother, Anna, was so frightened that she would cower in the corner of the room with Bob and his brothers. She was afraid Jim might physically abuse them. Although he never got violent with them, there was always the fear that his drunken rage would end in physical violence.

      After his drunken rampages, Jim would be physically exhausted. Then, he would beg Anna to help him to go up the stairs to bed. At that point, Anna was so relieved his rage was over that she would help him to walk up the stairs so he could collapse in his bed.

      Afterwards, Anna would come downstairs in a state of anxiety and she would binge eat. Typically, she would eat a few boxes of donuts, cereal, cookies, a couple of bags of potato chips and leftovers from dinner until she felt sick and then she would go upstairs to sleep in a separate bedroom from Jim.

      After their father went to sleep, Bob's brothers would disappear into their own bedrooms and lock their doors. As a result, Bob was left alone with no one to talk to about his father's drunken rampage and his mother's eating disorder.  So, he would climb the stairs to his own bedroom and stare at the ceiling for hours until he eventually fell asleep.

      Healing Trauma in Trauma Therapy

      As an adult, when Bob started trauma therapy, he didn't remember much of his childhood at first. He remembered doing well academically and in sports, but the rest of his childhood was a blur because he had dissociated it.

      He sought help in therapy because he was having problems in his relationship with Nina, a woman he had been dating for a year. She asked him to get help because she was fed up with him blaming her for his problems.

      Before processing the trauma, his therapist worked with Bob to help him to develop better coping skills. She taught him mindfulness meditation. She also encouraged him to journal to increase his self reflective capacity.

      When his therapist assessed he was prepared to process his traumatic childhood, she introduced him to Parts Work Therapy (see my article: Getting to Know the Many Parts of Yourself in Parts Work Therapy).

      They started slowly so Bob could get the sense of what it means to have different internal aspects of himself. Gradually, he became aware that, just like everyone else, he had many internal parts and shifting self states and this was normal (see my article: Understanding. Your Shifting Self States).

      When his therapist assessed Bob was ready to work on his unresolved trauma, she asked him to bring in pictures of himself from childhood. Since his family didn't take a lot of pictures when he was a child, Bob could only find two pictures of himself.

      He hadn't seen these pictures in a long time and when he looked at them in his therapy session, he was surprised to see himself as a young child sitting by himself with a blank stare. It was at that moment when Bob understood how dissociated he had been when he was a child. 

      He also realized why he didn't have many memories from that time--his experiences had been dissociated and compartmentalized so that they were inaccessible to him at that point.

      As Bob gazed at his pictures, he felt a deep sense of compassion for his childhood self and Parts Work Therapy helped him to reconnect to that part of himself (see my article: Self Compassion as an Essential Part of Trauma Recovery.

      Over time, Bob sensed his younger self coming alive again. He was able to reconnect with his younger self and imagine he could give his younger self what he didn't get as a child.

      Healing Trauma in Trauma Therapy

      Gradually, as Bob became more psychologically integrated, he developed a greater sense of self awareness, self reflective capacity and a capacity for emotional regulation.  

      His girlfriend noticed the difference which helped to improve their relationship.

      After he overcame his anger towards his parents, Bob felt compassion for them too because he realized each of them had been traumatized when they were younger (see my article: What is Intergenerational Trauma?).

      Conclusion
      Dissociation is a unconscious survival strategy that temporarily helps to deal with overwhelming events or circumstances.

      However, over time, even though dissociation is temporarily helpful, it creates problems in terms of a lack of psychological integration.

      Traumatic dissociation, especially dissociation that occurs over time, is an obstacle to psychological integration and positive mental health.

      Trauma therapy can help to integrate the dissociated parts of yourself so you can develop increased self awareness, emotional regulation and healthy relationships.

      Getting Help in Trauma Therapy
      If you think unresolved trauma is an obstacle to your well-being, you could benefit from working with a licensed mental health professional who is a trauma therapist.

      Getting Help in Trauma Therapy

      A skilled trauma therapist, who has advanced skills and training in trauma recovery, can help you to work through unresolved trauma.

      Rather than struggling on your own, seek help in trauma therapy so you can lead a more fulfilling life.

      About Me
      I am a licensed New York psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT (for couples), Somatic Experiencing and Sex Therapist.

      I have over 20 years of experience helping individual adults and couples (see my article: What is a Trauma Therapist?).

      I offer in person therapy in my Greenwich Village office or online sessions.

      To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

      To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.








      Monday, May 19, 2025

      How Does Shame Develop at an Early Age?

      Shame often begins during early childhood due to parenting styles and early experiences (see my article: Shame is at the Root of Most Emotional Problems).


      How Does Shame Develop at an Early Age?
      There are a number of factors that influence the development of shame at an early age including:
      • Lack of parental warmth
      • Harsh criticism
      Harsh Criticism and Shame
      • Witnessing domestic violence
      • Emotionally unstable parent(s)
      • Unpredictable or unstable parenting
      • Parents who abuse substances or engage in other impulsive or compulsive behavior
      How Does Childhood Shame Show Up in Adulthood?
      Children who grow up being shamed will grow up to be adults who experience shame, which can affect all their adult interactions, including romantic relationships, familial relationships and relationships with work colleagues.

      Shame during childhood often leads to repeating unhealthy patterns in adulthood (see my article: Why Are Childhood Trauma and Shame Affecting You Now?).

      Here are some of the ways that childhood shame show up in adulthood:

      Self Sabotaging Behavior
      • Aiming too low
      • Settling for less
      Shame and Self Abandonment
      • Pushing away or distancing yourself from a romantic partner because you believe you're not good enough
      • Perfectionism including striving for unrealistic and unattainable goals which adds to your feelings of inadequacy
      • Decreased self care including neglecting your own needs which can have a negative impact on your mental and physical health
      Sabotaging Relationships:
      • Shaming, controlling or domineering behavior to manipulate your partner and take the focus away from your own insecurities
      Shaming, Controlling and Domineering Behavior
      • Creating negative narratives including interpreting your partner's actions as a form of  rejection or disapproval--even when these actions are not
      • Withholding feelings including avoiding vulnerability and conflict by withholding by emotions
      Impact on Emotional Connection and Intimacy
      Shame in Relationships
      • Difficulty with vulnerability including fear of rejection or criticism which can make it difficult to open up to be emotionally vulnerable
      Getting Help in Therapy
      Shame is a complex emotion which can be very challenging to overcome on your own (see my article: Overcoming Shame in Therapy).

      Getting Help in Therapy to Overcome Shame

      If you can relate to the signs mentioned in this article, you owe it to yourself to get help in trauma therapy.

      A skilled trauma therapist can help you to overcome the debilitating effect of shame so you can lead a more fulfilling life.

      Also See My Other Articles About Shame:




      About Me
      I am a licensed New York psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT (for couples), Somatic Experiencing and Sex Therapist.

      I have over 20 years of experience helping individual adults and couples (see my article: What is a Trauma Therapist?).

      To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, lCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

      To set up a consultation, call me at 917-742-2624 during business hours or email me.

















































       

      Thursday, May 18, 2023

      Reparenting Yourself: How to Become a Good Enough Parent to Yourself

      Unfortunately, everyone didn't get good enough parenting when they were children.  

      Good enough parenting usually leads to secure attachment, but it's estimated that only 50% of people have secure attachment and the other 50% experience insecure attachment (see my article: What Are Attachment Styles?).

      Becoming a Good Enough Parent to Yourself
      If you didn't get good enough parenting, chances are that one or both of your parents probably didn't get it either.  

      How to Become a Good Enough Parent to Yourself


      Childhood emotional neglect and abuse are much more common than most people realize.  

      Childhood emotional neglect and abuse often lead to attachment-related problems later in life with adult romantic relationships (see my article:  How Unresolved Trauma Affects Your Ability to Be Emotionally Vulnerable in a Romantic Relationship).

      So, if you didn't get the parenting you needed as a child, reparenting yourself as an adult with love and self compassion is essential to emotional healing.  It will help you to build a strong sense of self esteem and self worth.

      The Role of Self Compassion
      Children who grew up without good enough parenting are often hard on themselves as children and adults.  If they had critical and shaming parents, these children internalize those characteristics in an unconscious way.

      How to Become a Good Enough Parent to Yourself

      This is why self compassion is so important.  For these people to heal, they need to learn to give themselves the compassion they didn't get as children.  This can be difficult to learn, especially if there's a part of them that feels they don't deserve it (see my article: Overcoming the Emotional Pain of Feeling Unlovable).

      Accessing a Self Compassionate Part of Yourself
      Parts Work, also known as Ego States Therapy, was originally developed by psychotherapists John and Helen Watkins in the 1970s. They specialized in hypnotherapy.

      Part of the work for individuals who were traumatized is learning to access a compassionate part of themselves (see my article: How Parts Work Therapy Can Empower You).

      This is often difficult for people who were traumatized to do on their own, so participating in experiential therapy is one way to learn to access and develop the self compassionate part (see my article: Understanding the Different Parts of Yourself).

      One way to do Parts Work in experiential therapy is for the therapist to help the client, as an adult, to imagine looking at their younger self who was traumatized so the two parts can have a dialog with each other.

      This dialog often involves the adult self asking the younger self what they need emotionally.  In other words, the adult self is in the role of a parent soothing the traumatized younger self.

      Then, the adult self gives the child what they need, which is usually a hug or hearing that they're lovable and so on.  All of this is done in the client's imagination in experiential therapy.

      Parts Work helps the younger part, who holds the trauma, to receive the loving and compassionate parenting they didn't receive earlier.  

      This back and forth dialog also helps to weave together a more integrated experience as the traumatized younger self and the adult self heal together emotionally.

      Imagining a Compassionate Other
      If it's too difficult to access a self compassionate part, clients in experiential therapy can start by imagining how a compassionate or nurturing person might feel and behave towards their younger self. 

      How to Become a Good Enough Parent to Yourself

      They can imagine what that person might have said to them when they were children that would have felt loving and kind. Or, they can imagine the loving gestures that this compassionate person might have made to them that would have communicated how much they cared for them.

      If someone can't think of anyone in their real life either from the past or from the present, they can imagine someone from a book, a story, a movie or some other imaginary person.

      Whether this person is someone they know in real life or someone imaginary, this would be considered an internal resource in the form of an imaginal interweave in experiential therapy (see my article: Experiential Psychotherapy and the Mind-Body Connection: The Body Offers a Window Into the Unconscious Mind).

      Talk Therapy Isn't Enough to Resolve Trauma
      Regular talk therapy can be effective for many psychological problems, but it's usually not as effective as experiential therapy for trauma because it tends to be intellectual (see my article: Why Experiential Therapy is More Effective Than Talk Therapy to Resolve Trauma).

      Clients who attend talk therapy can develop intellectual insight into their problems, but their problems often remain unresolved.

      Experiential therapy, like EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, AEDP, hypnotherapy and Parts Work, use the mind-body connection to work through trauma.  

      Experiential therapy helps clients to resolve trauma on an emotional level using the mind-body connection.  This is important because the resolution of trauma happens on an emotional level--not on an intellectual level.

      Getting Help in Experiential Therapy
      If you didn't get good enough parenting as a child, you can learn to reparent yourself in a nurturing way with the help of an experiential therapist.

      A skilled experiential therapist can help you to access the internal resources you possess so that you can heal from your childhood trauma.

      Rather than struggling on your own, seek help in experiential therapy so you can overcome trauma and live a more fulfilling life.

      About Me
      I am a licensed New York City psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT, Somatic Experiencing and Sex Therapist.

      I work with individual adults and couples.

      To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

      To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.