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| A compassionate framework for trauma repair: Evidence-based IFS parts work therapy leverages the gentle, healing presence of the Core Self to safely unburden wounded parts. |
- No Forced Reliving of the Trauma: IFS focuses on how trauma lives in the body and mind in the here-and-now. This means that clients can use current emotions, thoughts and body sensations or images.
- Permission Based Pacing: IFS is designed in such a way that therapists don't bypass defense mechanisms. Healing only progresses as "protector parts" (i.e., defense mechanisms) give permission and soften naturally.
- Welcoming All Emotions: Anger, anxiety, shame and all emotions are met with curiosity and not judgment (see my article: Welcoming All Emotions).
- Reframing Symptoms as Protectors: IFS is non-pathologizing, as mentioned above, so that symptoms aren't viewed as "destructive" or "bad". In IFS therapy there are no bad parts. Symptoms are viewed as protectors who are doing their best to protect the client. This reframing helps to reduce shame.
- Preventing Emotional Flooding: IFS relies on a gentle process called "unblending" When a client experiences emotional pain, fear or shame, the therapist asks the part to step back so that the client can witness the pain without feeling overwhelmed by it.
- Building Self Trust: Healing happens through your own inner wisdom rather than through an external source.
- Self-Lead Healing: The source of healing doesn't come from the authority of the therapist. Instead, it comes from the client's own Core Self which is an undamaged core that is characterized by calmness, compassion, curiosity and clarity. So, you set the pace.
- Gentle Unburdening: Parts of the client which hold the trauma are allowed to safely release their historical pain, shame and fear in an environment of internal containment and at their own pace.
Unlike traditional exposure therapies that can cause retraumatization by forcing you to relive painful memories, IFS is a gentle trauma therapy because it focuses entirely on internal permission and safety. In my Greenwich Village practice, I guide clients using a step-by-step process called unblending, which allows you to observe past pain without becoming emotionally flooded by it. We never bypass your defense mechanisms; instead, healing only progresses as your protective parts naturally soften and give consent, ensuring you remain in control of the pacing at all times.
In an experiential IFS framework, the primary source of healing does not come from the therapist, but from your own undamaged true self, also known as the Core Self. Even after severe trauma, this internal core remains completely intact and is characterized by natural qualities of calmness, compassion, curiosity, and clarity. My role as an IFS practitioner in Manhattan is to help you create space from protective mental spinning so you can connect with your inner wisdom, allowing your true self to gently comfort and unburden your wounded parts in real-time.
- Office Location: I see clients in person at my Greenwich Village office (New York, NY 10011) as well as online via secure telehealth throughout New York State.
- Initial Contact: I provide a complimentary 15-minute introductory phone call prior to scheduling an initial appointment.
- Contact Information: You can reach me directly at (917) 742-2624 during standard business hours or email me.


