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Showing posts with label processing emotions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label processing emotions. Show all posts

Friday, February 27, 2026

How Are Emotions Processed in Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP)?

I have been writing about emotions lately (see links to the prior articles at the end of this article).

As I have written in prior articles, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) was developed by Diana Fosha, an American psychologist based in New York City.

How Emotions Are Processed in AEDP

AEDP is one of several types of therapy that fall under the umbrella of Experiential Therapy (see my article: Why is Experiential Therapy More Effective Than Traditional Talk Therapy to Heal Trauma?).

The other therapy modalities that fall under this category of Experiential Therapy include:
  • EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
If you haven't read my more detailed articles about AEDP, I recommend that you read these articles first:



How Are Emotions Processed in AEDP?
In AEDP emotions are processed by:
  • Here-and-Now Focus: Focusing on the here-and-now of the therapeutic relationship
How Emotions Are Processed in AEDP
  • Developing Secure Attachment: Working through painful emotions actively in a secure and supportive environment with a deeply attuned therapist
An AEDP therapist helps clients to move from a state of defensiveness or emotional numbness to an experience of transformation.

Creating a "Safe Container" For the Client to Process Emotions
The foundation of AEDP is helping the client to experience a secure attachment in the therapeutic relationship:
  • The Therapeutic Relationship: Developing a trusting and validating therapeutic relationship
  • Undoing Aloneness: Helping the client to undo the feeling of aloneness
A Here-and-Now Experiential Focus 
The AEDP therapist has a here-and-now experiential focus including:
  • Therapeutic Attunement: Attunement that tracks the client's moment-to-moment experience
  • Slowing Down: An AEDP therapist will often ask a client to "slow down" to catch the subtle shifts in emotion that might otherwise be overlooked.
Processing Core Emotions
The AEDP therapist helps the client to process emotions by:
  • Getting Past Defenses: The therapist asks the client to identify and soften defense mechanisms (e.g., anxiety, intellectualizing, rationalizing, denial, numbing) to reach the underlying core emotions.
How Emotions Are Processed in AEDP
Metaprocessing (Reflecting on the Experience)
The AEDP therapist facilitates metaprocessing by:
  • Discussing the Therapy Process: A key component of AEDP is metaprocessing where the client and therapist talk about what it's like to share these emotions in the room:
    • "What was it like to share that with me?"
A Corrective Emotional Experience
AEDP helps to bring about a corrective emotional experience by:
  • Reorganizing the Brain: By having a new positive experience of being seen, heard and understood while being in emotional pain, the brains neural pathways are reorganized which promotes neuroplasticity.
AEDP and Neuroplasticity
  • Shifting From Avoidance to Connection: The process transforms shame into self compassion and changes habitual avoidance of feelings into a capacity for emotional awareness.
About Me
I am a licensed New York psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT (for couples), Parts Work (IFS and Ego States Therapy), Somatic Experiencing and Certified Sex Therapist.

I have over 25 years of experience helping individual adults and couples.

To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.

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Thursday, February 26, 2026

What Does Processing Your Emotions Mean?

If you have ever been in therapy, you have probably heard the term "processing your emotions".  It's a term that psychotherapists use often in therapy, but many people either don't understand what that term means or they have only a vague sense of it.


Processing Emotions in Therapy

What Does It Mean to Process Your Emotions?
Processing your emotions means consciously acknowledging, experiencing and integrating your feelings instead of suppressing or ignoring them (see my article: What's the Difference Between Emotional Regulation and Controlling Your Emotions?).

Key Aspects of Processing Your Emotions
  • Sense Your Emotions: Emotions are embodied experiences. If you want to process your emotions, you need to have a somatic awareness of them, e.g., a tightness in your chest, a clinching in your stomach, and so on (see my article: The Mind-Body Connection: What is Somatic Awareness?).
Sensing Emotions
  • Name Your Emotions: Labeling your emotions is essential to processing them ("I feel angry" or "I feel sad" and so on).
  • Allow Yourself to Experience Your Emotions: Instead of resisting or pushing down your emotions, you allow yourself to experience them. You are also aware that, unless you prolong the experience by ruminating about them too much or telling yourself a negative story about your emotions, emotions tend to rise, peak and subside in about 90 seconds (see my article: Managing Your Emotions: What is the Life Cycle of an Emotion?).
Allowing Yourself to Feel Your Emotions
  • Identify Your Triggers: Understanding what triggered an emotion and the root cause of the trigger.
  • Integrate Your Emotions: Make sense of your experience within the context of your life history, including your family history.
  • Take Action: Take action, if needed, to resolve a situation rather than just worrying about it.
How to Process Emotions
Psychotherapy is one of the best ways to process emotions with the help of a mental health professional, but it's not the only way.

You can also process your emotions on your own by:
  • Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and emotions to get clarity (see my article: Journaling).
Processing Emotions By Journaling
Observing Emotions in Mindfulness Meditation
  • Physical Movement: Yoga, exercising at a pace that's right for you and other types of physical movement can help you to release physical tension
  • Breathing: Breathing exercises, like Square Breathing, can help to calm your nervous system
About Me
I am a licensed New York psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT (for couples), Parts Work (IFS and Ego States Therapy), Somatic Experiencing and Certified Sex Therapist.

I have over 25 years of experience helping individual adults and couples.

To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.