Tips on How to Improve Your Sleep

Good sleep is essential to your health, mental health and overall well being.  

How to Improve Your Sleep

Generally, adults need 7-9 hours of sleep per night.  If you're getting less than that, you might have insomnia.

What is Insomnia?

Insomnia is a sleep-wake disorder which has three primary symptoms:

• Problems Falling Asleep (Onset Insomnia): An inability to fall asleep within 20-30 minutes

Problems Falling and Staying Asleep

• Problems Staying Asleep (Middle Insomnia): Frequent waking up in the middle of the night after sleep onset, which is more than 20-30 minutes, and difficulty falling back asleep after middle of the night awakening

• Early Morning Wakefulness (Late Insomnia): Waking up 30 minutes or more before the desired wake up time and before 6.5 hours of sleep. This often involves an inability to fall back to sleep.

A medical doctor will usually give a diagnosis of insomnia if a patient experiences sleep problems for three nights or more over a period of three months and no other condition is causing the sleep problem.  

There are also two different types of insomnia: 

• Short term insomnia: Lasting at least one month but less than three months

• Chronic insomnia: 
• Persistent insomnia: Lasting three months or longer
• Recurrent insomnia: Two or more episodes within a year

Common Causes of Insomnia

There can be many cases of insomnia, including:

• Anxiety
• Stress (see my article: Are You Experiencing Chronic Stress?)
• Depression
  
• Uncomfortable sleeping conditions (bed, temperature, light)
• Noise
• Drug use
• Alcohol use
• Caffeine
• Nicotine
• Irregular work shifts

Helpful Tips to Overcome Sleep Problems

See your medical doctor to get a diagnosis and rule out any other medical issues that could be causing a sleep problem.

There are also other things you can do on your own (always check with your medical doctor first before):

• Exercise: Daily physical activity at an appropriate level for you can release endorphins, which is good for your overall health and can help to improve your sleep.

Tips to Overcome Sleep Problems

• Practice Sleep Hygiene: Good sleep hygiene habits can help with insomnia, including:

• Wake up and go to sleep at the same time, even on weekends

• Make sure the room where you sleep is quiet, dark, relaxing and at a comfortable temperature

• Remove electronic devices from the bedroom, including the TV, smart phone, computer and other electronic devices

• Limit Napping: If you tend to nap during the day, limit it to 30 minutes or less and don't nap later in the afternoon.
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• Use Your Bed Only For Sleep and Sex: Don't do work while you're in bed. You want your bed to be associated only with sleep and sex. 

• Eat a Healthy Diet: Eat nutritious meals. Avoid alcohol close to bedtime and limit caffeine

Get Help in Therapy

If you doctor has ruled out medical causes and attributes your sleep problem to psychological issues, like anxiety, depression, unresolved trauma or other psychological issues, seek help from a licensed mental health professional.

Get Help in Therapy

Once medical issues have been ruled out, a skilled psychotherapist can help you to determine the underlying issues that are creating sleep problems and help you to work through these issues.

So, rather than struggling on your own, seek help from your medical doctor and, if the problem is related to mental health issues, seek help from a licensed psychotherapist.

About Me

I am a licensed New York City psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT, Somatic Experiencing and Sex Therapist.

I have helped many individual adults and couples to overcome mental health issues (see my article: What is a Trauma Therapist?).

To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.

Tips For Getting Better Sleep

Getting proper sleep is essential to maintaining good health and emotional well-being.  This is especially true when you're going through a stressful time.

Tips For Getting Better Sleep

The Effects of Poor Sleep

Poor sleep can affect you by:

• Lowering your threshhold for pain
• Increasing your blood pressure
• Affecting your memory and ability to concentrate
• Compromising your immune system, which can increase the likelihood of getting sick
• Increasing the likelihood for impulsive behavior
• Increasing the likelihood for weight gain

Improving Your Sleep Hygiene: Tips for Improving Your Sleep Hygiene

You might not realize that you're not getting enough sleep beausse you've become accustomed to being sleep deprived.  However, if you're not getting 7-8 hours (on average) of quality sleep, you're not getting enough sleep.  Here are some tips for improving your sleep hygiene:

• Exercise at a level that's appropriate for you earlier in the day to relieve stress.  
• Go to bed at the same time every night, including the weekends.
• Avoid bright lights after the sun goes down.  Bright light will inhibit melatonin which prepares you for sleep.
• Sleep about 7-8 hours straight (some people might require more sleep or a little less).
• Don't do work in your bedroom. You want your brain to associate your bedroom with sleep.
• Make your bedroom as comfortable as possible:
• Regulate the temperature so it's comfortable
• Decrease noise
• Don't watch TV, including the news, in your bedroom.
• Don't eat a large meal 3 hours or less before you go to sleep.  Indigestion can interfere with your ability to sleep.
• Don't use alcohol as a sleep aid.  Alcohol might relax you at first because you'll get the sedative effect, but alcohol also disrupts your sleep routine because it will wake you up after a few hours.
• Create a wind down routine to prepare you for sleep.  This might include bedtime rituals:
• Brush your teeth
• Wash your face
• Take a relaxing bath or shower
• Drink a relaxing cup of herbal tea 
• Read for a few minutes before sleep can be relaxing and help you sleep.
• Write in a journal earlier in the day to capture any thoughts that might be worrying you 
• Don't judge yourself if you still can't fall asleep.  
• Give yourself 20 minutes if you're unable to sleep.
• If you still don't fall asleep after 20 minutes, go into another room and do something relaxing to see if you can go back to bed and get sleep.

Getting Help in Therapy

You're not alone.

If you're feeling overwhelmed, you can contact a licensed psychotherapist to help you develop the tools and skills that you need to achieve emotional well-being.

During the COVID-19 crisis, many psychotherapists are offering online therapy sessions during this period when in-office sessions aren't available.

Rather than struggling on your own, contacting a licensed therapist can make all the difference in your overall health and well-being.

About Me

I am a licensed NYC psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and Somatic Experiencing therapist.

I work with individual adults and couples.

To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.