Self Help Journal Prompts to Cope With Anxiety

Journaling is a highly effective, science-backed self-help tool for coping with anxiety.

Using a journal can help reduce racing thoughts, anxious cycles, cognitive load, racing thoughts and anxious cycles (see my article: Journaling to Help Relieve Stress and Anxiety).

Coping With Anxiety

When anxiety feels overwhelming, writing in your journal helps to externalize your thoughts and feelings so you can look at them objectively.

Journal Prompts For Grounding Yourself in the Moment

You can use the following journal prompts when your anxiety is acute and you feel overwhelmed:

Grounding in the Moment Relief 

Use these prompts when anxiety is acute: 

• Where do I feel the anxiety in my body right now? Write down the physical sensations (e.g., tight chest, clenched jaw) without judging them. What is one thing you can do that would help you to soften your physical sensations (e.g., square breathing)?

• Look around the room: List 5 things you see, 4 things you can physically touch, 3 things you hear, 2 things you smell and 1 thing you can taste (this is the 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Method).

• Describe anxiety as a passing weather pattern: Describe the storm, but remind yourself the sky remains intact beneath the clouds.

Challenging Your Anxious Thoughts

Use these prompts to challenge irrational fears and worst case scenarios:

• What is the worst case scenario going through my mind? After you have written down your worse case scenario, write down the best case scenario and the realistic middle-ground outcome.

• Am I confusing my fearful thoughts for facts? Write down observable evidence for and against this worry (see my article: Thoughts Aren't Facts).

• Look back on past challenges: When have I felt this anxious before and still managed to survive or get through it? What helped me to get through it back then?

• Are my thoughts productive or unproductive? Am I actively problem solving or am I overthinking things?

Identifying Triggers and Patterns

Use these prompts when you feel low-level anxiety and you're not sure where its coming from:

• Divide a page into two columns: "In My Control" and "Out of My Control" and then categorize your worries into these two buckets.

• What story is my anxious mind trying to tell me? Who is the villain in that story and what am I trying to protect myself from? 

• What have my energy levels, sleep habits and routines looked like over the past week? Are there physical triggers compounding my mental stress?

• When was the last time I felt safe, calm or content? Specifically, what made me feel that way and how can I recreate that today?

Developing Self Compassion and Healing

Use these prompts when your anxiety is paired with a harsh inner critic, guilt or perfectionism:

• If my best friend came to me feeling the same way I feel now, what would I say to them? Write down the comforting words for yourself.

• Write a letter to your anxiety. Treat your anxiety like an overprotective, deeply misguided entity. Acknowledge its intent to keep you safe, but tell it why its panic is no longer needed right now. 

• What would unconditional self acceptance look like today? How can I give myself permission to be a flawed, anxious, healing human being?

My Next Article: 

In my next article, I'll discuss how to develop a deeper understanding of your anxiety and the underlying issues that might be involved.

Get Help in Therapy

If self-help strategies aren't helping you to cope with your anxiety, you could benefit from working with a licensed mental health professional who can help you to go beyond the surface to overcome anxiety.

Rather than struggling on your own, working with a skilled psychotherapist can help you overcome anxiety so you can lead a more fulfilling life.

About Me

I am a licensed New York psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, IFS, EMDR, AEDP, EFT couples therapist, Somatic Experiencing and Certified Sex Therapist.

I have helped many individual adults and couples over the years.

To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

Before setting up an appointment, I provide a free 10-15 minute phone call.

You can contact me by calling (917) 742-2624 or by emailing me.

Also See My Articles:

What is the Difference Between Anxiety and Fear? 

Debunking Common Myths About Anxiety 

How to Quiet Your Overthinking Mind