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Monday, June 3, 2024

Healing Attachment Trauma in Trauma Therapy

Attachment trauma, which involves attachment wounds, can occur at any time of life. 

Healing Attachment Trauma in Trauma Therapy 

Attachment trauma often occurs when there are significant disruptions in close relationships.

Examples of Attachment Wounds Which Are Part of Attachment Trauma
Attachment wounds include but are not limited to:
  • Early loss or abandonment in childhood
  • Lack of affection during childhood
  • Being separated during infancy or any time in childhood from parents or primary caregivers
  • A caregiver who is the source of overwhelming emotional distress for a child
  • A caregiver who has a substance abuse problem
  • A caregiver with mental health issues or who is emotionally unstable
  • A caregiver with poor emotional, physical or sexual boundaries
  • A caregiver who is controlling to the point where a child has difficulty individuating (being their own person)
  • Divorce in the family during childhood
  • Lack of support from a partner, spouse or significant other during a significant event or transition
What Are Signs and Symptoms of Attachment Trauma?
The signs and symptoms of attachment trauma include but are not limited to:
  • A pattern of difficulties in relationships with friends, family members, significant others and work relationships
A Pattern of Difficulties in Relationships

  • A tendency to experience humiliation, shame and/or guilt
  • Hyperarousal
  • Enmeshed relationships with family members, friends or significant others
  • Poor interpersonal boundaries 
Mental Health and Substance Abuse Issues Related to Attachment Trauma
Mental health and substance abuse issues related to attachment trauma include but are not limited to:
  • Trauma and Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Alcohol misuse
Attachment Trauma and Alcohol Misuse
  • Drug misuse or addiction
  • Compulsive gambling
  • Overeating
Healing Attachment Trauma in Trauma Therapy
There are many different types of trauma therapy, which all come under the umbrella of experiential therapy including:
How Will You Know When You're on the Path to Healing an Attachment Trauma?
There is no quick fix for healing attachment trauma, but Experiential Therapy, like EMDR, AEDP, Somatic Experiencing and Parts Work tend to be more effective than regular talk therapy for healing trauma (see my article: Why Experiential Therapy is More Effective Than Talk Therapy to Overcome Trauma).

Since you might not have experienced emotionally supportive relationships when you were a child, you will probably need time to develop a therapeutic rapport with your trauma therapist, so it's good to be aware of this as you start trauma therapy (see my article: Can You Learn to Trust Your Therapist If You Weren't Able to Trust Your Family?).

Signs that might be part of your path to healing an attachment trauma include but are not limited to:
  • You're beginning to respond instead of react to stress
  • You're starting to feel safer in your body
  • You're getting better at setting boundaries
  • You're becoming more aware of when you feel ashamed, guilty or humiliated when there's no objective reason to feel that way
  • You're beginning to feel less anxious
  • You're becoming aware that your depression is beginning to lift
  • You're starting to make healthier choices in relationships
  • You're feeling less anxious, avoidant or disorganized in a healthy relationship
  • You're cutting back or you have stopped drinking excessively
  • You're cutting back or you have stopped misusing drugs
  • You're feeling less inclined to gamble compulsively
  • You're less inclined to overspend
  • You're less inclined to overeat during times of stress 
  • You no longer feel comfortable in enmeshed relationships

Getting Help in Trauma Therapy
If you're struggling with attachment trauma, you're not alone.

Healing Attachment Trauma in Trauma Therapy

A skilled trauma therapist can help you to overcome unresolved trauma.

Rather than struggling on your own, seek help from a licensed mental health professional who is a trauma therapist.

Trauma therapy can help you to free yourself from your traumatic past so you can lead a more fulfilling life.

About Me
I am a licensed New York City psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, EMDR, AEDP, EFT, Somatic Experiencing and Sex Therapist (see my article: What is a Trauma Therapist?).

I work with individual adults and couples.

To find out more about me, visit my website: Josephine Ferraro, LCSW - NYC Psychotherapist.

To set up a consultation, call me at (917) 742-2624 during business hours or email me.